One: An unplanned pregnancy.
Face it a kid is about 23 years investment of debt. How did you allow that this to happened? " oh shit the condom broke " , " Damn you not on birth control"
Two: An uncertain female or male.
Have you ever realize things are going good to until you ask a serious question or make a serious suggestion. For example, " dang I'm really feeling you I think we should take it to the next level " If the person ask why that is a sign of uncertainty and maybe you're not on the same page. So run! no need to waste time on a person that cant make up his or her mind.
Three: NOT USING A CONDOM!
Damn you done messed up. So now all your fears are going through you mind. For instance, " Was that dude clean or was that female clean" "Did I contracted something ?"
Four: The past
Forget about the past. Theirs nothing in the past that can help your future.
Five: Stress
That is a killer. If you don't think so just take a look at a old picture of yourself before you had problems.
